In this blog post we’re going to look into the common bad habits of men that can easily turn off his partner and people around him. Perhaps, we’re also going to discuss some good habits a man needs to possess.
As a lady what comes to your mind when you think about what really makes a man? Is it his looks, or is it his wealth, or is it his masculinity, or fame or job title? Off-course, it’s true some women focus solely on the physical appearance or material things the man may possess.
But there are others who don’t care about those things. For such women, what makes a man is his character and how he carries himself. Habits are a big factor in that. What makes a relationship works out is the habits of the other partner.
Your habits, no matter how simple they may seem or how insignificant you might think they are, it shape the kind of man you become. To be the man you want to be, and the man that will be attractive to the woman you want to be with.
Below are the bad habits that you should stop doing now, and the good habits that you should develop or keep on doing.
Here are 4 Common Bad Habits You need to Stop Doing
1. Ignore Personal Hygiene
It’s true guys are defiance and masculine and hopefully industrious. But you should never ignore personal hygiene. Whenever you go to the restroom, don’t forget to wash your hands. Always Keep your nails clean and trimmed, and your overall look neat and tidy.
No matter how handsome you are, if your personal hygiene is poor, then you are going to turn off other people, especially women.
It’s an acceptable fact today in our society men often involved in one vice or the other including smoking. However, this is a dangerous habit that you should do your best to quit. If you want to be attractive to your desire woman then you don’t want to smell like an old ashtray.
Women want fresh breath and pearly white teeth especially when they’re in close-interaction with you. Aside from being attractive to a potential partner, smoking is dangerous to your health due to the high risk of health related problems such as tuberculosis, cancer of the lung etc., so quitting will be of important benefits.
3. Not Listening
Most men talks alot, probably stemming from their logical nature and the desire to always provide a solution. But unfortunately, they are not always good listeners. If you fall into such category, this is a habit that you must stop doing.
Often, people who are sharing things to you don’t really want a solution; they only want to release their emotions and have someone to listen to them. So pay more attention, and unless the person talking to you asks for a solution, just listen first.
4. Breaking Promises
A man’s word should be unbreakable. If you said you’d do it, then you must keep your word. Keeping your word makes you trustworthy, credible, and reliable. Unfortunately, some men are known for breaking their promises. If you’re not certain to keep your words, don’t make a promise.
Let your actions speak instead. An old saying, “Actions Speak Louder than Words” therefore your action should be powerful than your words.
Good Habits of a Man that can easily Turn on Your Partner or Anyone Around You
1. Exercising More
Exercising is an effective way to keep your masculine look, and men are known and appreciated for their physical strength. Aside from making you look really manful, exercise is good for your health and overall well-being. Don’t skip the workout, and if you don’t go to a gym, work out a program you can do at home. Exercise will keep you physically and mentally strong.
2. Being With The Right Kind Of People
Ultimately, you can be influence with the kind of person that you surround yourself with. Many men can be easily swayed by peer pressure. Make sure that you are in a circle of the right kind of people who have a good influence on you. Don’t accept less than you deserve, and change your social group if it will help you become a better person.
3. Committing To Only One Woman
While there are plenty of pretty women out there, it doesn’t make you less of a man if you decide to commit fully to just one woman. Instead of hanging out with different types of girls every week, why don’t you find someone who will stick with you, support you, and help make you a better version of yourself.
Committing to someone can bring an array of benefits, including increased happiness and longevity. Commitment is not going to tie you down, but make you a better person, and bring real happiness.
4. Be Courageous and Make Big Goals
Most men are known to be risk-takers, and this is a good habit to keep if in the right setting. If you don’t try, you fail by default. So take bigger risks and be courageous in pursuing what you want in life. Be it a woman you’ve always wanted to date or a business you’ve been planning to start, go for it. Don’t let a fear of failure make you miss out on opportunities and unimaginable success.
As a man, society expects a lot from you. Your habits shape the kind of person you are and will become. Keep in mind the bad habits and good habits discussed above, and take the path towards a better you!
Don’t forget to share this bad habits list with your loved ones and friends and give others the encouragement and tools to battle their own bad habits!
What you should do now
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